Friday, March 5, 2010

last night

james and i were talking about the word 'smug' and we simultaneously said "smug as a bug in a rug."

this is why i am going to marry him! also because he said,

"i like looking at flowers."

OMG, AND BECAUSE!!!!!! HE JUST DRESSED UP LIKE HIS SOPHOMORE SELF (when i fell in love with him) and he even made his hair have wings!!!!!!!! all for me <3james15

whole story of our love coming soon

11 comments:

J McO (change later) said...

It's about CREDIBILITY.

"Dear, I thought I'd drop a line
The weather's cool
The folks are fine
Everybody's thinkin' of you
P.S. I love you."

Anonymous said...

Wow. Those are all wonderful reasons to marry someone. I mean, he LIKES LOOKING AT FLOWERS?? You'd have to be a dumb-ass to say no.

Okay, really, are you marrying this guy because you're afraid you won't have the opportunity again? This seems to happen all too frequently in the mormon culture. And if you fell out of love with him 2 years ago because he was "acting silly" who's to say you're not going to fall out of love again?

Honey, I've seen this happen too many times. The divorce rate is higher than 50% (not excluding the mormon church). I'm just saying, calling off a half-assed engagement is a hell of a lot easier than getting a divorce. You don't sound ready and you don't sound in love.

J McO (change later) said...

Anonymous:

First of all, you obviously haven't read Adrienne's earlier posts so as to get a feel for her tone, i.e. when there's an air of facetiousness and when there isn't.

Second, motherfuck you and your presumptuous attitude. If you want to talk to me in person about it, I'll be glad to meet up with you in a location to be decided later.

sweetheart bitterheart said...

hahaha.. good fellas style. hey anonymous, do i amuse you? what, like i'm a clown?

anyway, girl, you trippin. i really have no rebuttal for you because like james said, you clearly have no concept of my sense of humor nor do you know anything about my and james' relationship for the past 9 years.

and trust me, i in luhhhhhhh.

whitney johnson said...

that "smug as a bug in a rug" thing is pretty incredible. aaron and i said the same thing the other day and i totally thought of you/this post. and is "Anonymous" for real?!

sweetheart bitterheart said...

apparently. probably just an ex flame who is pissed that i got the ring and they didn't. i'd be sad too.

J McO (change later) said...

Every time I read that comment, I become more sure of who it was.

Anonymous said...

Anonymous 1 just said what everyone in your lives is thinking because they can't tell you that to your face. Its sad that a friend has to be reduced to an anonymous comment on your blog.

sweetheart bitterheart said...

HA! nice try. again, your ignorance gives you away. you know NOTHING about my friends, who by the way, would never be such catty bitches or cowards. thank the dear Lord i don't have friends like you in my life. your comments have no affect on me, which is why i don't delete them, or make my blog private. keep them coming because unlike you, i'm totally comfortable with who i am, who my friends are, and what i'm doing with my life.

aftonjylare said...

hahaha, "anonymous 1 and 2" should get married. they sound perfect for each other and they'd have someone else to bother then...

what I was actually thinking, as a close friend, is that unselfish love is so hard to come by these days, so to watch a dear friend find the real thing is no less than a miracle and it takes some old-fashioned courage to trust in what your heart dictates. thankfully these two are not afraid.

as for jealousy and bitterness, that takes no intellect, courage or character. so welcome to your life as statistics, anonymous 1 and 2. i hope you can turn that fate around, honestly i do.

LOVE you both, addie and james.

J McO (change later) said...

Anonymous "friend":

You're very cute, but again - if you want to be an adult and actually say this to us in person (if your claim to being a friend is to be taken seriously), we'd love to hear you out. I just need to know that you aren't as obtuse as you sound.

For your information, Adrienne and I know each other better than either of us has ever known anyone else. We've waded through miles of each other's shit. And you know what? We love each other more because of it. We've also shared of the most precious moments of our lives then and now. I'm sorry you can only remember what our relationship was like two years ago rather than comprehend that a lot of crucial things can change in said time period.